Sept. 18, 2025

Episode 6 Preview: Rewriting the Conversation Around Those Who Are Left Behind

Episode 6 Preview: Rewriting the Conversation Around Those Who Are Left Behind

Jada goes through her memories, bracing for the pain each brings. “Some people lose their mother once. Jada… loses hers a little more every time she remembers.” The latest episode of Mental Health Rewritten opens with this scene of a young woman haunted by her mother’s suicide Nia Hollowell, who we met in Episode 105 – a powerful fictional narrative that feels all too real. And it only gets more real from there. This episode masterfully blends fiction with raw reality, interweaving Jada’s story with an actual mother’s testimony of loss, expert analysis, and even a cop’s-eye view of our broken system. The result is an emotional journey that confronts trauma, mental illness, caregiver grief, systemic failure – and the glimmers of resilience that keep us going.

Featuring Voices of Grief, Reckoning, and Resilience

  • Tamika Christy – Author, mother, advocate. Tamika lost her daughter Allegra to mental illness and suicide. She relives the nightmare no parent should endure: “I did everything I knew to do as a mother… and it still wasn’t enough.” Tamika’s story is both a tribute to her daughter’s memory and a searing indictment of a mental health system that she feels failed her family. Through tears and courage, she speaks for every caregiver who has screamed into the void for help, only to be met with silence.

  • Jack Register – Clinical social worker, trauma specialist. With decades of experience, Jack breaks down the psychological aftermath that trauma leaves in its wake. He offers a compassionate but unflinching analysis of how unresolved trauma can echo through a person’s life – and across generations. Jack helps us understand the clinical side of despair, explaining how a brain “hijacked” by trauma or depression isn’t weak or selfish, but overwhelmed. His expert insight shines a light on the cracks in our support systems, asking why we so often treat mental illness as an individual failing rather than a collective challenge.

  • Ashley Holder – Police officer and crisis responder. Ashley has been first on the scene for too many mental health emergencies. She speaks to the harrowing reality that law enforcement is often the last, desperate safety net when everything else fails. “We’re the ones who get the 3 A.M. call,” she notes, “but by the time I’m in uniform at your door, it means every other support fell through.” Ashley’s perspective from the front lines underscores the systemic gaps – the training officers don’t get, the mental health resources communities need but often lack – all revealed with the frank empathy of someone who has seen both tragedy and hope in those darkest moments.

Why This Episode Matters

  • Trauma’s Long Shadow: This episode lays bare how childhood trauma and loss can reverberate for years. Jada’s story shows that a suicide isn’t a singular event over and done – its aftershocks live on in those left behind, shaping their every relationship and memory. How do you heal when the wound is invisible and constantly reopened by remembrance?

  • The Unseen Struggle of Caregivers: Through Tamika’s eyes, we confront the quiet agony of caregiver grief and guilt. She grapples with the what-ifs and whys: What did I miss? Could I have saved her? Her testimony forces us to acknowledge the emotional toll on families fighting for a loved one’s life in a system ill-equipped to help.

  • Systemic Failure, Urgent Change: Mental Health Rewritten doesn’t shy away from calling out systemic failures. This episode asks tough questions about how our society handles mental illness and crisis. Why did a mother have to battle bureaucracy and stigma while her daughter slipped away? Why are police officers like Ashley left to pick up the pieces instead of mental health professionals? The dialogue is a critique of a broken system, demanding we rewrite a better one – where asking for help isn’t met with waiting lists, confusion, or handcuffs.

  • Resilience and Hope in Darkness: Amid the heartbreak, there are threads of resilience. We hear it in Jada’s hesitant steps toward healing and in Tamika’s decision to speak out so that her daughter’s story might save someone else’s child. We see it in Jack’s assurance that with understanding and early intervention, despair can be met with hope. And we feel it in Ashley’s resolve to treat those she encounters with humanity first, proving that compassion can thrive even in the direst moments. This episode is a beacon urging us to replace judgment with empathy and action.

This is more than a podcast episode – it’s part of a larger, urgent conversation about rewriting how we understand mental illness and suicide. It’s a call to look inward and ask how we can all do better, to turn pain into purpose, and silence into dialogue. Don’t miss this powerful chapter of Mental Health Rewritten. Listen, reflect, and join the movement to rewrite the narrative on mental health.

 

Debuts 09/19/2025 – Take Care Of Yourself